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Feelings…Embracing Nature In Difficult Times

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Feelings of joy warm my soul whenever I am in the garden.

Feelings are usually triggered in reaction to an external event. Emotions and feelings are two different reactions to certain situations. If we look around us, feelings of sadness are everywhere. The current worldwide situation has many of us, wrapped up in our suppressed emotions. Social distancing to save our lives is important. The act of wandering in the garden is the best place to reconnect with your inner thoughts and emotions.

Touching a nearly finished bloom from one of my Dad’s Hellebores, conjure up memories.

The rain from today lingers on the leaves and plants throughout my garden. I always glance at this Hellebore, as I leave to walk Precious. Dad was elated to have a Hellebore in his garden. I remember watching him carry it about and finding just the right spot. We planted it together, digging the quarter size hole for the dime-size plant. That was one of his favorite sayings as he chuckled. His face shared feelings of love for his garden and me as well.

This Iris, one of the first to open made me smile.

It is almost as if this Iris is wearing her feelings on her petals. Tearful images of a fleeting bloom. A gorgeous bloom, silky to the touch, standing tall amidst the existing unfurling buds. This particular bloom will be mush by morning. More blooms will be open in the morning. Right now, this Iris represents a beautifully elegant bloom.

The sweet smell of seasonal bliss wafts through the air. Feelings of comfort, peace, and wellbeing come to mind.

Winter Honeysuckle is a scent I seek out in the spring. Never tiring of the scent, it reminds me of my grandmother’s hugs. The scent filled the air as she hugged us close to her bosom. A grandmother’s touching, hugging, and showing love is simply wonderful! Scent can often trigger all types of emotions – good and bad.

What we are experiencing has some people shocked. A feeling of dismay is felt throughout society. Being numb is a symptom of a depressed society. We are an emotional society, and a loving one as well. I love my grandsons. Thoughts of hugging my grandsons, cross my mind daily. I would love to pinch the cheeks of my oldest daughter or simply cuddle with my youngest daughter. Right now, it is important for us to practice safe distancing, just to stay alive. In my mind, Morris Albert sings “Feelings”. I can feel the “teardrops rolling down my face”…

The term “social distancing” prohibits us from feeling the hug of a friend, a parent, or even a grandmother. It does not prohibit us from going into nature. Nature is there for us and if we embrace it, the emotions will flow. Emotional health and wellbeing can be affected by embracing nature. It only takes two minutes a day for nature to lift your spirits and shake up some positive endorphins.

Staying in touch with your feelings by going into nature is easy. In your own backyard, engage with nature. Go into nature to touch a leaf, hug a tree, or smell a rose. As we practice social distancing, we need to stay in touch with our emotions. Nature is here to help us stay in touch with our feelings.

In two minutes the simple act of smelling a rose can positively affect our state of mind.

Embracing nature and staying in touch with my feelings…are you?

Teri, Cottage In The Court

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Lady Banks…Welcome Home

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Lady Banks is a rose I grew in my Virginia garden.

Lady Banks rose is a familiar sight in many southern cities. Having lived in Virginia, wandering through the historic neighborhoods in late Spring was magical. A bright spot in my day was catching a glimpse of the Lady Banks rose as she danced among the branches of nearby trees. I could not move my Lady Banks rose from my Virginia garden, as she was well into her journey towards the sun.

ROSA BANKSIAE

Need a little privacy? Have 15 – 20 feet to spare? Let me introduce you to the Lady with attitude. Rosa banksiae is The Lady Banks rose. Her rule is easy to remember. Allow her to roam, climb, and drape. This is the only rule. Lady Banks will climb over, through and around almost anything she wants. She owns where ever she is planted. You would not want to contain her too much, as she blooms on old wood. Some cultivars are delicately fragrant with thornless branches. This rose will flirt with your plant sense until you realize…you need her. After all, the vision of Lady Banks is like yellow pearls dotting a wall of slender green leaves.

Thornless, slender green leaves on lanky stems, the Lady Banks rose is easy to care for.

She is the ultimate Lady. Diseases and pests ignore her presence. Virtually undemanding, she silently caresses anything in her way, as she reaches for the heavens above. Who would not want such a Lady in their garden, if room to grow was not an issue?

FINDING THE LADY

My garden buddy, Mary Alice, and I traveled to Winchester for an apple festival. We stopped by a nursery and found some very good deals. Behind some traditional roses, I also found an unexpected prize. There was a one-gallon container of the Lady Banks rose. I think I ran to the register, happily claiming my prize. Finally, I had a long-awaited addition to my Maryland garden.

Realizing her needs, I knew, like any free-spirited Lady, she would need room to roam freely. Room to climb, drape and perhaps even gently overwhelm anything that stood in her way. At the edge of the woodland, on a sunny, but partly shady slope, she was home. I placed the Lady in her forever spot and patiently waited.

When the world was considered normal, I never really found time to see how she was doing…but never forgot she was there. Now at this time of unintentional pausing, I am noticing parts of my garden in a different way.

I purposely planted her in a spot where she would simply glow when in bloom. When she had reached a point of sharing the golden ruffled blooms, I knew she would call out to me. Today, she called my name, “Teri, “I am here, just for you. Enjoy.”

I had to reach out and answer as Lady Banks called me closer…

This morning I noticed a weeping branch with yellow blooms and I was star struck. The yellow pearls of bloom lazily draped over and through the trees within reach. Such an amazing sight to see.

Under skies of gray, clouds bulging with heavens tears, I captured a bloom. I was reminded of a Virginia garden, in my past. I look forward to more memories in my new life, a different garden, being present, and making time to pause.

With petals soaking wet from today’s rain, a hydrangea displayed yellow confetti signaling the end of the show. In a partly shady corner, at the rear of my front garden, raindrops resting on my cheeks…I smiled.

Sitting in the shadows. a hydrangea captures the confetti which signals an end to the Spring show.

Finally, Lady Banks rose is at home in my garden to stay. I welcome her presence. It reminds me to slow down and enjoy the beautiful, albeit brief dance of Spring.

A small bouquet that let’s me know, Lady Banks has arrived.

Do you have a memory of a well-loved plant that evokes memories? Is it finally in your garden or are you still on the hunt? A well-loved plant is like welcoming an old friend home to stay.

Welcoming familiar faces and old plant friends …

Teri, Cottage In The Court.

To find out more about the Lady Banks Rose, click here

The abundantly beautiful Lady Banks rose.

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Book Review: The Earth In Her Hands…

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Book reviews bring me joy. Especially when they speak my language.

Book reviews are one of my favorite things to do, other than gardening. Especially when they are about gardens, gardening or garden travel. I recently had the opportunity to review a book published by Timber Press. I want to say Thank You to Timber Press for seeing a need and finding the right person to share the message.

The Earth In Her Hands – The Book

The Earth In Her Hands – 75 Extraordinary Women Working in the World of Plants, beautifully written by Jennifer Jewell. Creator of a popular podcast, Cultivating Place: Conversations on Natural History & the Human Impulse to Garden, Jennifer Jewell’s perspective on approaching this topic was truly on point. Choosing the women for this topic had to be quite the ordeal. Who do you leave out? How do you know you have chosen wisely? Jennifers keen instinct on making this a worthwhile book was unique and well-executed.

The conversation throughout the book embraced women in many different fields of work, all pertaining to horticulture. A diverse collection of women who connect with this earth whether in their communities or in the public space.

The Story

In this book, Jennnifer shares not just their story but who inspires them. This is a big question that should actually lead to another book on this topic. Women are often overlooked or minimized in many fields, even horticulture.

Familiar faces are all through this book from Erin Benzakein (Floret), Peggy Cornett (Monticello) to Renee Shepherd (Renee’s Seeds). There are also some women we need to know like Yolanda Burrell (Pollinate Farm and Garden), Leslie Bennett (Pine House Edible Gardens) and Robin Wall Kimmerer (Center for Native Peoples and The Environment).

Finding joy in making bouquets would inspire a carer for Christin Geall. Such a simple act of self-expression has created a life long way of enjoying what she does.

Filling A Need

The need to inspire young women of all ages to just get outside, garden with a passion and see where that passion leads is important. As I read this book the first time, there was something very obvious. Most of the women in this book had been introduced to the garden at a young age. The impact of connecting to the earth always amazes me. One story and quote sticks in my mind. Marta McDowell (NY Botanical Garden) shared after visiting the Emily Dickenson house. “…A door opened that day, and I stepped through it.”

This quote really spoke to me as a Gardener and a Garden Communicator.

I am on the fourth reading of its book as I investigate the Other Inspiring Women recommended by the interviewees. With Mother’s Day gifting in mind, this is a book worth gifting.

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Ruffles of The Peony Party – A Celebration

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Ruffles and flourishes like a crinoline slip as the Peony Parade begins.

Ruffles make me happy. Reminding me of the dresses my Mom would make to celebrate the Spring season. Particularly for Easter. When I was a toddler, Mom’s mindset was the more fabric the better. When I see old photos, I wish she had used fewer ruffles.

I appreciate the abundant ruffles in my garden. Especially when I see the tree peony party begin in my yard. Bursting at the seams, the petals of pink bring back many memories. They remind me of days when I was doing the same, in my Easter dress with fabric galore!

This year, a pink peony was the star of my tree peony parade. As she slowly performed a striptease this week, I became a garden voyeur.

Tight buds held the blooms close until the right time…

Two buds closest to the walkway seemed so excited to see each day. The promise of ruffles, upon ruffles of beauty, was part of my nightly dream.

Two buds…patiently waiting to bring me joy…

One by one, the layers pushed away from the calyx…

Layer upon layer the buds held the petals of pink crinoline tightly.

Being late was not part of this peony’s plan. She wanted to be the star of my garden. Pretty in Pink to capture the attention due to her.

Ruffles pushing through with all their strength…

Until finally, the tree peony fluffed her petals, shook the dew off her crinoline of abundance, sighed, and stretched forth her petals…


Ruffles and more ruffles…let the peony party begin!

Are you familiar with the Tree Peony? Is there a parade of bodacious pompom blooms gracing your garden? I adore the Tree peony blooms for the joy they bring to my garden party!

ODE TO THE TREE PEONY

Up high she stood

Patiently absorbing the dew

As the day brightened

The calyx could no longer hold her back

One by one, the petals began to unfurl

Rosey pink ruffles gently set free

Wafting in the air was music

A Spring sonnet, only she could hear

The song of the earth waking from a winter’s nap

The death orchestra began

Signaling it was time for the dance

She was the party starter this year

As she unruffled her dress

Ruffled and ready for the dance of the season

Teri Speight, Cottage In The Court

Ode to the Tree Peony

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Saplings of Strength and Survival

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Acorns are the seeds that grow saplings of strength that survive in times of crises and chaos.

Saplings are often overlooked when we think about the landscape. We adore the gift of shade that trees like maples and oaks provide. The autumnal leaf color is a visual gift as we anticipate the nakedness of nature during the winter months.

A SEEDS TALE

In the midst of the forest, seeds fall. Seeds fall, laying in stillness until conditions are right.

Acorns covered by leaves, tree debris or earth scattered by the wind help saplings grow. The best natural mulch on earth!

As the season’s change, the seed is covered by the loving leaves or natural debris. The seed sometimes awakens from within and sets down roots. If it is a tree, the roots produce top growth and become saplings.

SAPLINGS SETTING ROOTS

Saplings of strength happen when roots find optimal conditions for good growth…and survival.

I observed the growth of a favorite sapling which I see daily. While walking my dog about 12 years ago, she would love to eat acorns. I wondered if this was a good idea or not. No matter how hard I tried to wrestle them from Aminia’s mouth, the acorns were her treat. The crunching sound from that happy face was hilarious.

There was one area where an abundance of acorns fell. I noticed an acorn, nestled among crunched acorn caps had taken root. Seeing the two leaves signaled that it had found a home. I placed two handfuls of mulch in a baggie. Carrying it to the site, I covered its base. I wanted to keep an eye on this baby. How long would it take an oak sapling to grow into a majestic species if left alone? This was my prized sapling, the same age as Aminia. I committed to caring for this sapling, making sure that no large branches fell to hurt or harm it.

Time passed and I admired the growth from year to year. Amazed at the silent strength of this oak sapling, it began to branch out and reach towards the sky.

The year Aminia passed away, I purposely did not walk that way for 6 months. I knew the sapling was standing tall, on her own strength, firmly rooted in her native soil. Funny thing, I had to allow the memory of Aminia to settle inside my inner garden. The seed of what type of dog would I look for was planted and had to take root as well.

The sapling called Precious that has given me the strength to survive whatever comes my way. The exact dog I was looking for.

Precious and I now take the daily walk past this same sapling. However, now it is a young tree. Increasing branches and a widening trunk is a comforting sight to see. It has weathered the storm of severe drought, extreme temperatures, and heavy rains. I have seen children hugging its trunk, playing games around it and yet, it still grows.

During this time of uncertainty, we need to be like saplings of strength. Standing strong, staying in place, and considering the alternatives to our communities if we do not. Putting down our roots by reading the books we were going to read one day or re-connecting with our families is a good thing. Reacquainting ourselves with our homes or even starting a garden are great ways to patiently pause.

I am like that oak sapling. Exhibiting strength in the midst of this chaos and prayerfully will be a survivor. How are you showing the strength of a sapling in your home or community? Are you the sapling that will survive after the chaos is over?

Waiting to walk past our sapling that stands for strength…and survival.

Sinking my roots in thoughts of my garden,

Teri, from the Cottage In the Court

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Being Present In The Moment

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Being present in the moment helps one appreciate the act of living.

Being present in the moment is a state of mind that might be difficult at the moment. Having to practice social distancing after 4 days gives me a reason to pause. I am such a people person. The reality of more distancing is truly something to think about. I long to see my grandsons, daughters, and co-workers. It really hit today when my oldest daughter said she would drive by just so she could see my face. I gulped, as my tears welled up in my eyes. Those words hit home. The sober reality of being present in the moment was even more important.

Elizabeth Gilbert recently shared some seeds of wisdom on being present in the moment. A practice shared with her by a friend when she was in need. As she shared, the feeling of being sad, frightened or anxious can take us to a place of uncertainty. This particular practice of being in the present is quite simple. 5-4-3-2-1can be practiced throughout the day. I did it several times a day this week and realized this was worth sharing. This is a practice that can be done by anyone and anywhere.

5- CAN YOU SEE THINGS?

Being present starts by counting five things that you see around you. As I wandered through my garden, here is what I noticed.

I saw my Yoshino Cherry Tree with her amazing blooms in my back yard…
One of the midseason peonies has broken ground. A visual treat that made me smile…
The possibly coral bloom of a rescued Camellia was almost fully opened today. I think it is more of a pink color than a coral. I am ok with this. Being in the moment caused me to gasp with glee.
A simple daffodil in the midst of a border I am renovating as I have time. I paused digging when I saw the foliage and gave it time to bloom.
The seedlings that sat in the planter until the proper time finally broke through the soil.

4 – CAN YOU HEAR ME NOW?

What 4 things can you hear? Two brothers, neighborhood children, were outside riding their bikes. This was a pleasant sound earlier today. It meant there was human interaction – a sound I have missed this week.

The sound of someone with a leaf blower. People can use this time to catch up on last-minute seasonal tasks. Being present in the moment means we do not have to rush right now.

The gentle breeze created the sound of nature’s wind chimes. To hear the subtle rattle in the trees helped clear my thoughts. Clearing one’s mind is a great way to practice being in the present.

What sounded like small jackhammers was actually a chorus of woodpeckers. The art of hunting for food in the deadwood of large trees stood out in the otherwise quiet of the day.

3 – FEELING THREE THINGS

It was a bit challenging deciding on just three things that reflected what I could feel. There was so much in the garden that I could feel.

I love the feel of soil between my fingers. Warm to the touch in the pots, yet colder when grasped from the ground below.

Breathing deeply, in and out, allowed me to feel my lungs expand. The feeling of the crisp air as I breathed in was refreshing to my spirit. I was so thankful to be able to experience this. The chilly air was quite refreshing and helped my body maintain a balanced temperature as I raked last year’s leaves from my walkway. Practicing being present in the moment definitely has kept me in a positive mental place.

A thorn caught my sleeve which caused me to notice the egg sack of a praying mantis.

As I reached under a rose bush, a thorn caught my sleeve. Working to release my sleeve, I noticed an ootheca. More commonly known as a praying mantis egg case. When the female praying mantis creates this protective case it is soft. Eventually, it hardens for the safekeeping of the babies within. Touching this crispy outer shell with its ridges, created a feeling of hope. I caressed it and hoped that they would all survive and be a part of my garden’s eco-system. Not cleaning up the garden has its virtues. I have found more surprises throughout the garden.

2 – TWO FOR YOU

Focusing on two things that I could smell was one of the easiest things to practice. The scent of a frequently used body oil rode the breeze every time I moved.

Oak Moss by Anu Prestonia is a hydrating body oil with an earthy scent. As I raked, my body warmed up and the scent intensified and immersed me into a good mental space. This fragrance allows me to be present at this very moment.

My herb garden offers wonderful fragrances. As I dream of warmer days, I crush the leaves of this oregano and rub onto my hand. The scent of the garden invokes a sense of calm.

The herb pot by my mailbox is coming to life. When I touch the emerging oregano leaves, the scent causes me to daydream. I imagine cooking a nice pot of pasta sauce. Using fresh herbs from the garden like this oregano, fresh basil, or even leaves from my Bay Leaf plant takes me to a place of calm.

1 – JUST PICK ONE

Finally, the one thing I can taste right as I practice being in the moment is ginger. The slightly spicy, tangy ginger is a staple in my world. I cut a few slivers to chew throughout the day. Fresh ginger is considered an anti-inflammatory, and it tastes good to me. I even bruise a knob of ginger and put it in my water overnight for flavor. A simple act worth trying.

Practicing this method will help in being present in the moment. How do you practice being here..present at this very moment? Let’s continue to stay in touch as social distancing has been rescribed for each of us.

Time to sow more seeds in this period of social distancing.

Teri, Cottage In The Court

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Creating In The Midst of Chaos

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Creating in the midst of chaos is a skill worth having. Mental words games and creating moments of laughter always help me cope. I refuse to use the other “C” word in the news these days. I am thinking of positive actions in the garden. Creating joyful moments that will allow me to destress is good mental mojo.

The act of creating for this gardener has many levels…and I see it becoming more unique as we tick away the days. Creating ways to pass the time has me thinking of all positive things that start with the letter C. Curbside is a popular word for many retail entities. This is a great way to keep essential stores open and employees working.

CREATE A PLEASANT MEMORY

Go into the garden and allow those creative juices to flow. Casually stroll, as you mentally begin creating a list of plants in your garden that start with C. This was easy for me this morning. Precious and I wandered from side to side and found a few things in bloom…

Candytuft (Iberis Sempervins) was just waking up this morning.

An unnamed Camellia has three buds this year and I look forward to it blooming. The color is supposed to be Coral…I can’t wait for it to bloom.

This Camellia is a nursery mystery find. I was told it might bloom Coral. I have to wait and see…

Creating alternative ways to experience and enjoy Spring can be assisted by technology. Two Metro stations that are closest to the Cherry Blossoms have been closed as of today. This action was taken to discourage crowds from visiting The National Mall. The show put on by the Cherry Blossoms is a much-anticipated sign of Spring. However, with the aid of technology, the Trust for The National Mall has a Bloomcam feature that is worth checking out. Visit The Trust For The National Mall.

Bloomcam will take you to the Cherry Blossoms as we practice our new norm of social distancing. Creating virtual memories will help us smile through this chaotic moment.

Back to my personal green space. I have worked on creating an environment that brings me seasonal cheer.

Cheery yellow blooms on this Epimedium Sulphureum lifts my spirits along the walkway. Seeing these blooms reminds me that I am a bit late on cutting back the foliage and removing the leaf cover.

Creating places where memories dwell and give me something to look forward to is special. I am not a real Chrysanthemum person. Clara Curtis is my favorite, as it was my first love in my Virginia garden. Clara was responsible for creating a border of seasonal bliss. From October until Christmas, the blooms of Clara danced in my border. My Dad loved ALL Chrysanthemums…and made certain he shared cuttings with all the neighbors.

This is a Chrysanthemum from my parent’s garden. My Dad made sure he gave all four of us cuttings for our gardens. If we did not know any other plant…we knew our Chrysanthemums!!

CHUCKLE OF THE MORNING

Loudly chuckling, this morning I was on a mission. My goal was to find the C plants in my garden before working remotely from home. I could not get a good photo of the carrots growing. I could not find a lot of Chickweed.


Did you know that chickweed was edible? If you are chemical-free, you can eat this right out of the garden. I am so happy I do not have enough this year.

This was a good thing. I did notice other weeds popping through the soil. I am creating a mental list of all that I have to do as I practice social distancing in our new…temporary normal.

Can you find the C plants in your garden? We must stay sane as we commit to protecting each other by social distancing. It is important to stay connected with each other. Our mental health matters.

In what ways are you utilizing this time to find positive ways to celebrate the letter “C”?

Camellia time in my Spring garden. A positive C word…Camelia

Creating more madness in my garden,

Teri, Cottage In The Court

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Self-Care In Anticipation of Embracing The Garden

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Self-care at this time of world-wide chaos is so important.

Self-care in a time of chaos and crises is a good thing. It does not matter if you are a Weekend warrior, one who lightly dabbles in the garden, or employed fulltime. In the wonderful world of horticulture, taking care of your self is key. Social distancing is actually a thing. For some of us who thrive on personal interaction, this is a gamechanger. I am one of those people lovers. It is even more critical at this time for me to practice self-care.

SELF CARE DAY STARTERS

Starting the day with fresh blooms and your favorite warm beverage is an excellent way to practice self-care of the senses.

Mental self-care should be the first line of defense. Not being around people to laugh, share stories and connect can be hard. Setting the stage for positive thoughts is the perfect way to start the day. Gather a bloom or a few from your garden. No garden – OH MY!! Consider finding a photo on-line of your favorite bloom, print, and place where you can see it. Why not print several and place them throughout your residence. I would consider this positive placemaking. Focus and imagine the fragrance, the feel of the leaves, or the texture of the stem. This is a positively simple way to embrace the start of the day.

MENTAL SELF-CARE

Organizing your daily tasks could prove crucial to a productive day.

Becoming overwhelmed can be a trap. Look at your business tools and prioritize the items of importance. We all have a list of low priority items that we almost never get to. What better time to do them? Unfinished projects or paperwork can big down the mind and affect the spirit.

Need to see your co-workers? Consider video conferencing. It is a terrific way to stay connected and collaborate. Even if it isn’t business, check in with your co-workers or clients virtually. Keep each other uplifted. This will speak volumes when the chaos dies down.

This is a perfect time to delve into those projects or reports that require research. I find that uninterrupted time for thorough research is time well spent. Organizing your files or purging reading material is productive as well.

In my neck of the woods, I had a “Snow Pile” of things for a snowy day or blizzard. Since we had no snow, I renamed it my “Moment of Chaos” file. Mental self-care is addressing those things that linger in the back of our minds.

PHYSICAL SELF-CARE

One of my favorite self-care phrases is “Make time to enjoy life”. I adopted this phrase as I listened to my co-workers talk about time. Work, life balance is one of the hardest things to do. I was one of those “always busy” people at one point in my life as well.

One day, while sharing my calendar with my Dad, I realized that I rarely stopped. I seldom paused to really enjoy what I was doing. There was always a deadline or I had to quickly rush from event to event. I considered it never allowing myself to be bored. The act of taking time for self-care just didn’t happen or not often enough.

One evening while talking with my Dad, he shared three words with me. He said, “Just Be Still”. “Teres, You are just going and doing. It is impossible for you to really enjoy the moment. Just be still…” What wonderful words of wisdom. I miss my Dad immensely. One of the gifts he left me were these three words. When I start going, going, and planning to go more – I pause. Taking moments to breathe deeply, I am still. If only to reassess the importance of my why – I am still.

Taking time to get outside is a great way to practice physical self-care. As a gardener – stuck indoors with my garden just out of reach as I work indoors – I am dreaming. Dreaming of ending my day and walking outside to make use of the remaining daylight hours. Sitting all day is not healthy for anyone. Try leg lifts, Tai Chi from your chair, or planking at least once an hour. Don’t just sit and do nothing, do some squats, lift a hand weight or two. Something as simple as walking up and down the steps inside can make a difference. Self-care means coming out on the other side of this National crisis healthier – mentally and physically.

What perfect time to use a moisturizing mask on your face. Indoor heat can be drying to the skin. No-one will see you in your face mask as you make time to take care of your self. After a day of sitting in sedentary solitude, run a warm bath and soak. A bit of aromatherapy, exfoliating salt scrubs, and soft music, will go a long way in reducing stress or angst.

One final tip – meditate and be Thankful. Meditate about the things you are grateful for. Your family, your pet, a job, or even your greenspace. Think about how gorgeous your garden will be when we get through this. Start some seeds or just go to your favorite garden center and practice just being. Being able to make the choice of embracing the ability to realize all is not lost. Things are certainly a mess right now, but we know that change will come. Even after a long grey winter, looking forward to the signs of Spring is always a welcome relief.

Don your sun hat, open up the door, receive your dose of Vitamin D and boldly practice a bit of Self-care.

Here are a few fun resources to check out that focus on self-care:

Tiny Buddha, Habitsbuzz, or The Little Book of Self Care. Each of these references offers great ways to get started.

Looking forward to getting outside and into the garden. Are you?

Dreaming of better days and practicing self-care,

Teri, Cottage In The Court

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African American Heritage In Urban Agriculture

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African American heritage includes many things passed down from generation to generation. Heritage, for many African Americans, is rooted in the garden.

The definition of heritage according to Merriam Webster is something transmitted by or acquired from a predecessor. Each of us has something that has been passed down. Our culture embraces our heritage by language and even mannerisms. The foods we eat are part of our culture. The way we garden can be determined by our cultural differences.

African American heritage in the garden is very special to me. What we grow and why we grow is important. How we use what we grow is part of our culture. Plant and food crops have always played a role in our heritage. This is not just an African American practice. It is a cultural practice embraced by many ethnic groups.

VILLA LEWARO

Villa Lewaro in Irvington, New York. Madam C.J. Walker left her mark as a part of the African American story. It is currently in the throes of renovations. Upon completion, Villa Lewaro will become a Think Tank for the next generation of Women of Color.

February brought a few events to my attention that focused on African American history and heritage. The first was a presentation at Hillwood Museum, Home and Gardens on Villa Lewaro. Presented by A’Lelia Bundles, the history of this magnificent home was not just a story. This story is part of her heritage. Sharing the story of the success of Madam C.J. Walker – her struggles, success, and legacy – was truly music to my ears. Having visited the grounds of this magnificent estate, it was a delight to hear details about this successful woman. I must say, MadamWalker chose the right spot for a view of the Hudson River from above.

Villa Lewaro is not open to the public and is currently under renovation. Plans are for Villa Lewaro to be a Think Tank for Women of Color. I am sure Madame C.J. Walker is proud to have her estate become a part of the African American story.

NEW BLACK FARMERS MOVEMENT

February is traditionally known as African American history month. A month where we celebrate our history and heritage. There are several local voices that celebrate African American heritage on urban farms. Some farms found in the most unexpected places, feeding the heart of the farmers who touch the land.

Growing and eating from the land has been a longstanding practice in many cultures. It is directly in alignment with the heritage of many African Americans. The hand to the land connection via farming truly reflects our heritage. African American heritage is rooted in the earth.

New Brooklyn Farms Owner, Doug Adams. This young man is changing the dynamics of Urban Farming Policy in the DMV.

Attending an event sponsored by the Maryland Organic Food and Farming Association (MOFFA) was delightful. This winter meeting was one of the highlights of February. Moderated by Doug Adams, New Brooklyn Farms, the discussion on “The New Black Farmer” was a needed conversation.

Atiya Wells, Director of BLISS Meadows with her husband, Kieron George, and the Farm Manager, John Walker.

It was refreshing to hear Atiya Wells describe her story. She preferred to consider her journey as one of a “Returning Generation Farmer”. Historically, African American farmers have had difficulty holding onto our land. Migration removed us from the land or we simply lost interest in connecting with our history and heritage.

Atiya is working in the community to teach others how to reconnect to the land. Backyard Basecamp located in Baltimore, Maryland teaches the importance of being outdoors. As Director of Bliss Meadows, Atiya is on a mission as she raises her family. Atiya is leading an effort to preserve 10 acres of land to connect People of Color to their agricultural heritage.

Ann Livingston, Owner, Deep Root Farm, LLC. Growing not just fabulous organic produce, but a second location as well.

Heritage played a role in why Ann Livingston became an organic farmer. Owner of DeepRoot Farm, LLC. Ann’s Guyanese roots recognized the need of finding familiar cultural foods. From Long Beans, Malabar Spinach, Red Roselle and Bitter Melons, Ann is an Organic Farmer. Growing these food crops has enabled Ann to grow and expand her farm. Deep Roots is currently in the final phase of purchasing a second location. This will enable her to offer more Organic food options. Who knew that there was a way to acquire land utilizing a government program for Minority Women Farmers.

How about a way of connecting technology with native produce from West Africa? John Manirakiza has figured out a way to do just that!

John Manirakiza sees a need and is working on growing a solution. Some might know John as one of the area’s leaders in growing specialty crops from West Africa. John manages the Ethnic Crop Research program at the University of the District of Columbia. Helping the local West African immigrant community find foods that reflect their heritage is a beautiful thing. John is currently working on an app – @ojaexpress. This app will deliver ethnic groceries via an online platform. What a unique way to respect one’s heritage. Staying connected with identifiable cultural roots.

If you are in touch with the Urban Agriculture scene, you have seen Michelle Nelson. Doing what she does best – empowering others connected with the earth to know their WHY.

Michelle Nelson is the living definition of Agriculture Policy Change Maker in the Washington Metropolitan area. A strong voice in changing the way urban agriculture exists in the DMV, Michelle is a busy young woman. She is the Urban Agriculture Youth Program Leader for After-School-Allstars in Washington, DC. and the Community Garden Program Manager in Maryland.

Michelle encourages others to seek help, attend workshops, and inquire about Urban Agriculture offerings. We can just call her “Connector”. Michelle understands how our heritage plays a role in connecting heritage and identity. Each of these powerful voices was well-received by all attendees. This was a day of information and inspiration.

Do you consider your heritage in the garden? Is it all about food or is it about visual beauty as well? Are you growing plants that are culturally familiar?

Dreaming of Celosia, Hydrangeas, and Marigolds…all part of my personal heritage.

Teri, Cottage In The Court


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Riviera Vacation Without A Passport

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Riviera dreams will enhance my slumber tonight for tomorrow is day 1 of the Philadelphia Flower Show!

Riviera vacations have been on my mind all week. I did not dig out my passport, but I had the oil changed in my car. After a less than exciting winter, this short drive to Pre-Spring bliss will be a breeze! I have a feeling that my dreams of the Riviera will get visions of snow off my mind.

Every year the Philadelphia Horticulture Society presents the Philadelphia Flower Show for all to enjoy. This year will be no different as the theme is Riviera Holiday. Starting tomorrow, Saturday, February 29th until Sunday, March 8, 2020, the Philadelphia Convention Center will be the hottest spot in town – if you enjoy all things beautiful!

This year’s Flower Show promises to share the inspiration of not just florals, but tastes, scents, and visions of the Riviera Region. Imagine waves of lavender gracing the knees of Citrus trees as you wander from display to display. The inspiration alone will be worth the drive!!

Five new designers will be introduced to this year’s attendees. The displays have been designed to emulate the Mediterranean feel. Among them, designers from Nice, France – James and Helen Basson of Scape Design, and Laurélie de la Salle of Laurélie Paysages are names to look for. They have worked quite hard to demonstrate their skills and knowledge in their displays. How to use plants found in the Mediterranean, in our sustainable landscapes in the United States is anyone’s guess. This is why I need to go to The Philadelphia Flower Show.

RIVIERA EXPERIENCES

There will be a few additional Flower Show experiences offered this year. There is the PHS Grow It! Center featuring assorted experts who can answer your questions on what’s trending in the garden including hands-on sessions for those who really want to dig in! One of the focuses of OHS is to build communities. The Grow It! Center will assist attendees with ideas of how to create a bigger impact in their communities. I cannot wait to see this exhibit!

This year’s Flower Show also features the Bloomin’ Brunch. If you love food and flowers this is a cannot miss feature. With a specially curated menu and thoughts of brunching on the Riviera, I cannot imagine missing this treat!! Of course, the theme can be a mood setter. “Taste of St. Tropez”…says it all!!

RIVIERA EDUCATES

One of the highlights of this year’s Flower Show is the Biodiversity Symposium which is sponsored by the Prince Albert II of Monaco Foundation USA. Held on Wednesday, March 4, 2020, this event features Dr.Peter Raven who will be sharing his wisdom on how gardening influences biodiversity. Helping the attendees consider ways to help conserve and foster the concept of biodiversity, this symposium promises to inform and educate the attendees. There are price breaks and deals that encourage attending the Symposium as well as the Flower Show.

RIVIERA VACATIONS ENCOURAGE CREATIVITY

I ama child at heart. At the Flower Show there is a Make and Take room where I can really b a child again. For a minimal fee of $10.00, attendees can create a takeaway memory of the Flower Show. It is a great way to pause, mindlessly have fun with other like-minded adults and step away for a moment. Stepping away allows a bit of downtime before visiting the vendors within the show.

Did I mention the Potting Parties with Tu Bloom?? If you have never attended one of these potting parties, you do not know what you are missing! Tu Bloom is nationally recognized when it comes to all things garden. This is certainly one of my favorite day paries of the year. Once again, for a minimal fee, the experience and the take away of a beautiful container, the memories are more than worth the admittance! This event is another favorite of mine and Tu Bloom is the perfect host!!

AU REVOIR FOR NOW

I am off on a trip to the Riviera, without luggage or a passport. I will be bringing back memories of yet another place I have not yet visited. There is also the possibility I will encourage others traveling with me to make sure this is a Spring Rite of Passage, year after year!

Did I mention next Friday you can even bring your dog?? Can you believe the Redding Market is right across the street? I am a sucker for Italian foods located in the rear of the market. Oh, The Flower Show is simply a welcome end of winter distraction!!

Are you considering going to the Philadelphia Flower Show? Are you dreaming about a Riviera Vacation?

Sunglasses, a calming drink, a fragrant bloom, imaginary sand between my toes, and my nose open to the scents found along the Riviera…see you there!

Teri, Cottage In The Court

To find out more about PHS, click here

To find out about more events offered, click The Flower Show

For information about the Biodiversity Symposium, click here.

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