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Let It Be – A Gardener’s Mantra For Embracing Joy

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Let it be has been my mantra at The Cottage this year. It has led to new discoveries in every nook and cranny.

There are so many secrets found in our gardens. What nature requires of us is simple. Pause, observe and appreciate nature’s gifts. This has been the perfect year to just let it be. Our garden does not need to be tinkered with daily for perfection. Nature knows what she is doing, so we should learn to just let it be. If allowed at least one season to just let it be, the garden will teach us lessons we might not learn otherwise

LET IT BE FREE

Let it be – allow the plants to grow freely.

There will always be weeds. Learn to accept this. Unless you are using chemicals or always pulling each and every weed, you are not enjoying the garden. The garden should not call you to work. A proper garden should create an atmosphere to linger as you listen and learn. I have spent this summer pulling weeds along the edges of my front yard meadow. The taller weeds that pop up unexpectedly have been used in bouquets. After all, a weed is merely a plant out of place. In nature, a weed just might be food for a garden friend, like a bird.

LET IT BE ORGANIC

A Smart Pots Compost Sak is a terrific addition to the garden that blends into the background.

Be cautious of what you are using in the garden. Is it safe for wildlife? Is it safe for any humans that might come into contact with? If you pull the weeds create compost. A small pile discretely placed inside the garden or in a proper compost bin has multiple benefits. What a wonderful way to reinvest in your garden and it is all free from Mother Nature.

LET IT BRING YOU JOY

Immersing yourself into the garden as you utilize all of your senses can be quite the experience. All plants do not have scent…however plants and gardens make sense to me!

As you garden, use your senses to make it more enjoyable. Touch the leaves along the way as you stroll by. Bend over to smell – maybe there is a scent or maybe not. Look up…perhaps there is a bloom you might have missed, a ripened fruit you might not have noticed. Appreciate the lessons that the garden teaches us and embrace the feeling of joy it brings.

Enjoying my garden, weeds and all as I simply let it be.

Teri, Cottage In the Court

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Chiswick – Memories of An English Garden On My Mind

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Chiswick House and Gardens in London was a treat to visit during my August reset.

Last year, England was part of my August reset. Thoughts of leaving Paris on a high-speed train underwater to a place I daydreamed about was exciting. The two hours from Paris on the Eurostar was uneventful. London was closer than I anticipated. One of my garden club members Eileen met me in London for this brief, but full trip. My Aunt Yvonne was just as excited but our journeys were different. While she visited other historic sites throughout London, Eileen and I were on the hunt for gardens. Eileen had investigated places to see, one of which was Chiswick.

WHY CHISWICK?

In 1819, a portion of the Duke of Devonshire’s Estate called Chiswick was purchased to be used for flower shows and events. The group that started this included many people who were passionate about the plants they were acquiring. Now known as the RHS or Royal Horticultural Society, this group kept Chiswick at the forefront of many plant aficionado’s minds. The RHS even maintained the grounds until around 1904.

Chiswick has quite a long history of being passed down from family to family, being sold, and even a short stint as a mental hospital. After nearly falling into total disrepair, The English Heritage set up the Chiswick House and Garden Trust. A major overhaul of the gardens was initiated and the results are what we see today.

SAVORING THE SPLENDOR

The underground ramp safely delivered us to the other side of a busy street.

Eileen and I followed the walking directions from the train. The walk was delightful and there were so many gardens along the way. Our desire was to see more than one garden that day. We were looking for the underground tunnel that would take us under the busy street, to safely approach the grounds of Chiswick.

Such a beautiful planting at Chiswick.

A mixed garden greeted us and we were simply excited to imagine what was beyond this beautiful naturalistic distraction. As we wandered between the clipped hedges, we could feel the excitement in the air.

Pub in the Park at Chiswick seemed as though it was going to be a fabulous event.

We checked out the map to see what the quickest way was for us to get to the glasshouse. Chiswick has a glass house that is home to quite the historic Camellia collection. We were seriously on a mission to see all we could, before lunchtime.

The Deer House and the garden behind the glasshouse was not open to the public as other events were scheduled.

As we approached a clearing on the side of the Doric Column and Rosary, the vision was simply amazing! The gardens were the appetizer that drew us in.

This perennial planting was duplicated on both sides of the walkway.

As we made our way to the glasshouse, it was hard to not be in awe of the magnificent structure. Although it had been renovated, I could only imagine the entertaining that took place here many moons ago.

The glasshouse that held many dignitaries, celebrities, as well as families for quite a few years.

One of the most memorable guests who performed at the glasshouse were the Beetles.

The Beetles gave a stellar performance at Chiswick. A photo proudly displayed inside the glasshouse memorializes that moment.

Another notable item in the glasshouse was a duo of original urns. These were quite beautiful and I could have looked at them for hours. The detail was amazing. Due to potential damage, the urns are now kept inside to protect them from the elements.

One of two urns that are impressive in stature and simply beautiful.
Some of the intricate details found upon closer inspection of the urns.

Imagine a sincere plantsman building a 300-foot glasshouse to protect his plant habit. What a devotee of the garden, to make sure that all his plant gifts or purchases were given a home. One of the plants he loved was the camellia. The Duke had collected quite a few of these “Exotic” plants for the garden from near and as far as China.

As I stood inside the doorway of the glasshouse, my imagination allowed me to mentally dance on the lawn. The view, along with the perennial beds, encouraged me to daydream vividly. In my mind, there was a soiree of plantspeople enjoying the beauty that surrounds them.

Daydreaming in the doorway of the glasshouse at Chiswick.

Dotted throughout the interior of the glasshouse, were large containers of scented geranium’s and assorted annuals.

Indoors, a pot of scented geraniums leaned out to touch any who passed it by.

As the morning wore on and hunger settled in, Eileen and decided to grab a quick bite as we continued on our journey. The sandwiches were delightful.

The egg salad was light, yet filling. The onsite snack shop was a welcome sight. As we ate, the rest of the day was waiting for us to find all the gardens we could.

I am glad we started the day at Chiswick, the place where English gardens were cultivated, plants traded and people gathered – all for the love of plants.

As we continue to unintentionally pause, are you dreaming of traveling to places unknown? Have you sorted your photos, organized new pictures on-line, or considered taking a tour? I think each of us has imagined the possibilities and can’t wait for 2021.

Considering an organized tour, to a garden, of course!

Teri, Cottage In The Court

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Composting Is Elegant and Pretty with Smart Pots

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Composting can be classy with the Smart Pots Compost Sak.

Compost bins are usually these hidden piles of debris. While we are proud to compost, some of us consider it our secret. After all, composting is usually an unsightly pile of debris, a black bin, or something we hide at the rear of the garden. Some people who do not understand the value of composting feel it attracts unwanted critters. Others find composting bothersome, so they bag up their garden gold to be retrieved from the curb and taken to the recycle center. Smart Pots offers a glamorous way to contain your compost.

Smart Pots is a leader in innovative ways to do quite a few things in the garden. With a line of breathable pots almost every size imaginable, Smart Pots have been my choice of pots this year in my container vegetable garden. My plants are healthy and I can move them around as my lighting changes. Having lightweight Smart Pots will also make my end of season garden clean up a breeze. The ability to dump the soil, rinse, flatten, and store over the winter is priceless.

BEAUTIFULLY COMPOSTING IN THE GARDEN

Composting has never been easier or prettier as well. The Smart Pots Compost Sak is made of a permeable fabric that is lead and BPA free. It is also reusable. Using this special fabric aids in accelerating the microbial activity as the greens and browns breakdown into garden gold.

As I garden, reusing my debris to amend my beds without buying bagged compost is important. Purchasing brown bags, filling them up, lining them by the curb just does not seem right to me. Slow composting in a non-obvious way was something to consider. The Smart Pots Compost Sak is an elegant way to mindfully compost.

With the rain we have had this year and the ability to work from home, it was the perfect time to have a way to compost in different places throughout my garden. As I age, lugging compost to the back was no longer appealing. Having compost almost near or in-place, as much as possible was important. I chose a spot that receives part-sun, a bit of rain, and in an accessible, yet inconspicuous spot.

The Smart Pots Compost Sak blends easily into my landscape. You have to really look for it!

Using a permeable fabric allows oxygen to flow through the microscopic pores. Remember wearing patent leather shoes on those special occasions? Well, there is a shiny lid that slips over the bin to dress up your compost mess, in addition to keeping the heat inside. Pretty and elegant while composting is something I never thought possible. Smart Pots Compost Sak does that and more.

Smart Pots Compost Sak has a lid that reminds me of patent leather shoes. What a cute way to contain the heat as the ingredients break down inside the Sak.

I followed the directions of 2/3 brown to 1/3 green. I would rather garden than cut grass, so borrowing a brown bag of lawn clippings was important. Once my Compost Sak began to lean, I knew there was something good happening inside. Gingerly opening the lid, I noticed that the contents had begun to decompose. Grinning from ear to ear, I used my pitchfork to shift, fluff, and stir the ingredients. It was a good mix with just enough water to get things going and the results showed promise. Placing the lid back on to allow the magic to continue made me realize that I might need three more Smart Pots Compost Saks. One for the side of my garden and two for the backyard as well.

COMPOSTING WISELY

Gardening smart as we age is important. Lugging wheelbarrows of debris or brown bags is not appealing. I can gather a 5-gallon bucket of debris and empty it into the Smart Pots Compost Sak without breaking my back. If placed properly, using my garden fork, I can pretty much amend in place. At the end of the day, the Smart Pots Compost Sak is a wise choice for gardeners everywhere. It saves your back, saves the dollars spent on brown bags, and time spent on lugging debris-filled bags to the curb.

As we begin considering how we approach the next season, I recommend trying a Smart Pots Compost Sak as an elegant way to enjoy composting.

Teri, Cottage In the Court

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Life Imitates the Garden – Cheer Up Mrs. Obama

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Life imitates the garden in so many ways. There are ups and downs, good seasons and bad. No matter what happens, we can find solace in the garden.

Dear Mrs. Obama,

Congratulations on your new podcast journey. It always helps to have a friend to talk things through, no matter the topic. I too have found my voice in podcasting. The joy it adds to life is amazing. I wish you much success n what could be considered a perennial journey.

I have listened to a few people who have expressed concern about your admission of feeling a little low and perhaps a tad depressed. Join the Club. Many of us feel the same way. Would many people actually admit it in public or to strangers? Probably not. It is sometimes easier to walk past our life weeds and act as if they do not exist.

LIFE – FLOW IN THE GARDEN

Life springs forth offering promises of floral bliss.

Spring brings thoughts of bulbs bursting through the soil, buds swelling on branches, and a fresh perspective after nesting season. Just as things are filling our minds with thoughts of the next, a hard freeze comes along. That is when we worry. Will the buds be damaged? Some wonder if the daffodils still open. Will the hydrangeas survive this last gasp of winter? Most plants will survive as they are strong. Other plants will suffer damage, yet this is a reality of the garden. Life in the garden comes with a lot of faith, a well as hope.

The anticipation of Mother’s day shopping for the unusual annual or specialty plant is a ritual. Adding new annuals and tropical plants to excite the gardener is a familiar practice nationwide. This year in my Zone 6b garden, I was not sure when it was safe to plant. The ground was too cold or too wet. The evening temperatures were a bit colder than normal. Some of us lost plants that typically would have been okay, as they were planted at the proper time…or so we thought. In the midst of unintentional pausing, we needed the joy of the garden. A pandemic threatened to interrupt the flow of the garden.

As our gardens peak, it signals us that the time has come o enjoy it as we entertain, pause, and simply let it be beautiful.

LIFE AS THE GARDEN PEAKS

Summer has now arrived in our gardens. If we have planted the right plants, it is overflowing with bodacious beauty. However, if we planted the right plant in the wrong place, we are experiencing gaps, plant failures, and disappointment. I am sure that many of us thought we would be able to vacation, enjoy gatherings with friends, and enjoy life as usual. With this new reality, we are experiencing, life as we knew it has certainly changed. In ways that were once unimaginable, our beautiful life garden has major weeds. These weeds are dragging our spirits into the muck and mire. This sobering reality has left many of us dragging our hopes and dreams to the compost bin. However, it is a known fact, Gardeners do not give up on our gardens.

Reading during this time of unintentional pausing gave me encouragement. If seeds are sown correctly, they will grow. The fruit harvested is worth the labor of planting. There are also some less than positive seeds. It is up to us to choose which seeds we sow.

SEASONAL TRANSITIONS IN LIFE

I want to invite you to read a book, American Grown The Story of the White House Kitchen Garden and Gardens Across America, by Michelle Obama. On page 165 there is a sentence. Allow me to share…

“Those first seeds we planted in our garden helped start a conversation that grew into a nationwide movement as people across this country united to address childhood obesity. And together, with determination and creativity, we have begun building the foundation for a healthier generation and a healthier nation.“

What we are going through might not be obesity, but the words apply to what has deposited into our life garden. You helped build the foundation. The seeds that were planted are the young people who showed up for the cause. Your words and positive imagery is the soil of the foundation. Soil enriched and fertilized with love, hope, and faith. It is the existing foundation for the new type of garden. A garden that is quite diverse. Although every garden has a weed or two.

Phytolacca americana, commonly known as pokeweed often invades the garden.

POKEWEED IN OUR LIFE GARDEN

Pokeweed is good at subtly growing amidst other plants in the garden. The garden might look lush and simply gorgeous. All of a sudden, the gardener realizes that it isn’t new growth next to the plant, but pokeweed. Rising from a dropped seed or roots left in the soil. This plant pops up beside almost anything, anywhere…imitating something we planted on purpose.

When gardeners realize that pokeweed leaves are a bit different and the growth a bit out of order, we take action. Do we snap it off at the top, only to allow the root to remain and resurface? Do we chemically treat it and hope we don’t kill other surrounding plants? Or do we dig deeply, aiming to eradicate as much root as possible?

As an avid gardener, I dig deeply – even though disturbing the soil just might bring up more weed seeds. Disrupting the soil to allow all the negative seedlings to expose themselves, reveals what is under the surface. The foundation of my garden should harbor seeds of positivity, beauty, and should provide joy. I can address what lies beneath the soil if I can see it and alleviate aggressive weeds before they grow deeper roots.

Yes…it makes me mad and downright sad to see the Pokeweed pop up here and there. Some days the weeds are overwhelming. Just when I think I have finished weeding my garden, I stand, gazing and admiring the beauty before me. Beside the hydrangea, standing, almost hiding behind a bloom, I see it. If I allow it to stay, drop its poisonous seeds, sink its roots, and become a bigger problem, it will continue to invade my garden. Pokeweed is not welcome in my garden.

Others find it beneficial, even attractive for wildlife. All parts of the Pokeweed plant are toxic. It is a source of food for wildlife, so it does serve a purpose. Perhaps in a meadow, but not in my pleasure garden. My garden consists of plants that bring me joy!

LIFE…EVER EVOLVING – LIKE THE GARDEN

Like the gardens at Chanticleer, our gardens are ever evolving.

Dear Mrs. Obama, I understand feeling low. It is all a part of life. Just like the garden, we have disappointments and sadness. We cannot allow the pokeweed in our midst to overrun and destroy our life garden. Can we do anything abut the seeds we cannot see? No. We can help uplift the seeds that have grown into strong, vocal plants in or current life landscape.

Sorry this was so long, but I just wanted you to know we are all emotionally at our wits end, but Fall is on our doorstep. I noticed this morning leaves dropping from the trees. Signals of change are in the air, in the garden and in the foundation of our life gardens. We are here to witness this garden of life change, as a new season is beginning.

From one gardener to another, when this world moves too fast, go into the garden. Perhaps go into the garden with friends. The garden is there for us…let’s embrace its imperfections. Let’s enjoy its diversity, fertilize it with self-care, and water it with love. It will need us in the next season. I have a sense, we will be quite busy.

Off to enjoy the garden with friends,

Teri, Cottage In The Court

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Abernethy and Spencer – A Local Horticultural Jewel

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Abernethy & Spencer is the oldest Greenhouse in the Mid-Atlantic.

On a long winding road with such breathtaking scenery, Peggy Riccio and I found a Jewel in the Crown of Loudon County Virginia. Exploring almost anything that has to do with horticulture – from gardens to plants – offers us the opportunity to dig deep into the Mid-Atlantic region. Abernethy & Spencer was the best-unexpected treasure of this year.

SURVIVAL AND REVIVAL

Variegated Bleeding Heart Vine was simply stunning as I entered the huge greenhouse. I knew that I was in for a treat!

110 years of continually bringing horticultural bliss to the Mid-Atlantic is something that David Lohmann of Abernethy & Spencer can be quite proud of. Ask any local, David knows what grows in Western Loudon County, as well as the contents of the five acres of plants, trees, and shrubs ifound at Abernethy & Spenceer.

In 2016, a snowstorm threatened to interfere with Spring at Abernethy & Spencer. A cracking sound could be heard in Springdale. It was a sound that totally caught David by surprise. Upon realizing that the sound came from his nursery, inspecting the damage was quite the shock. The largest greenhouse on the property had collapsed under the weight of the snow. The beauty in the midst of disaster – none of the Historic Greenhouses were damaged. This is how our ancestors let us know they are there for us.

The other Blessing was in the way the community pitched in to help save anything they could from further ruin. Rebuilding took place and the nursery opened that year on March 1. When you are a perennial asset to the community and tragedy happens, the community becomes the fertilizer to aid in rejuvenating growth. Spring flowers, trees and shrubs were once again available for gardeners near and far.

FACTS YOU NEED TO KNOW

Ixora “Nora Grant” was quite the vision as strolled in the greenhouse.

Abernethy & Spencer has been Organic for 15 years. Knowing that Virginia has rather strict rules on what can and cannot be considered Organic, this speaks volumes to me personally. I did not have to worry about chemicals that could harm me. I had plans for the scented geraniums and herbs I purchased.

Nine hundred. Yes nine hundred varieties of perennials grown on the premises. This is in addition to over two hundred varieties of shrubs and one hundred varieties of trees. This is NOT your big box store!

Customers can currently find seven Macaws and Cockatoo’s on the premises. They are quite talkative and I am certain their chatter keeps the friendly staff entertained when they pause. There are also six dogs that are onsite to welcome anyone they might see. Did you know that Abernethy & Spencer rescues animals? As a plant and animal lover, this speaks to the love of nature which the owners and staff clearly share.

I love this tropical number commonly called “Popcorn plant”. Senna didymobotrya is a fun conversation plant…but not for eating!

The new greenhouse is quite cognizant of the impact on the environment. It will generally will reduce water usage by at least 60 percent , electricity by at least 50% and heating costs by minimally 40%. Once again, this says a lot about the dedication to being in touch with setting one of the best examples of environmental stewardship.

TROPICAL BLISS IN VIRGINIA

The Brugmansia selection was quite amazing.

I am so glad that there were no horse flies in this gorgeous garden center of my desire. It was quite hard to keep my mouth closed as I witnessed horticultural bliss unfolding with every step I took. I become quite happy when visiting a garden, garden center, or meeting someone who understands this gardeners needs is something I enjoy. Every time I turned around, I saw a “need”. So maybe it wasn’t a real need, but a desire. There is not much difference in my book when it comes to gardening. I can honestly say, Abernethy & Spencer made me feel quite at home.

There was one tropical pant that really caught my eye.

Calotropis gigantea or Giant Milkweed simply took my breath away!
The velvety foliage and elegant stature made my heart flutter. Glad I could provide it a home.

Abernethy & Spencer…Thank you for being a dependable resource on a hot day in Virginia.

Dreaming of Vitex and my next visit. Yes they have Vitex (I checked!)!

Teri, Cottage In The Court

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Contemplating “C” In My Garden

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Contemplating positivity in the letter “C” has been challenging this season. Although considering how it connects me to my garden, I see that it brings me joy!

The art of contemplating anything is an act of consideration. A few ways that Merriam Webster defines the word contemplate, definitely applies to the garden. Particularly when the first definition is… to view or consider with continued attention..or to meditate on. As we practice unintentionally pausing, I have meditated on a few things, for sure. Contemplating the letter C” was just the beginning. I began to consider exploring how “C” connected my garden.

EXPLORING “C”

As we paused this Spring, I began to abhor the letter “C”. Contemplating the thought of hearing anything that began with “C” for who knows how long was worrisome. I had to reassess my thought processes. Was there a way to find the beauty in this third letter of the alphabet? I began to explore the positive attributes of “C” as it pertained to the garden. I found a way to share a little street cred to the letter “C”.

PERENNIALLY “C”

Coneflower instantly came to mind as I contemplated the letter “C”.

Mulling over just a few of the perennials I could find in my garden that started with “C” was amazing. Changing my thoughts on “C” has broadened my perspective on this letter. It does not matter if it is the botanical name or the common name. Plants starting with the letter “C ” in my garden bring me joy. Coneflower, Catmint, Candytuft, Chrysanthemum, and Calendula all add joy to my garden. Clematis, Canterbury Bells, Cleome, and Cosmos all rise to salute the letter “C”.

Candytuft, also known as Iberis Sempervirens is a Springtime pleasure of the sunny border.

Let’s not forget the trees and shrubs like Cornus Mas, Camellia, Chaste Tree, or Cotoneaster. For those semi shady areas we often contemplate adding Coleus, Coral Bells, Columbine, or Cardinal Flower.

Vitex or Chaste tree is a terrific alternative to the butterfly bush. This tree invites life into any sunny garden.

“C” – ENHANCING IT’S REPUTATION

Cringing when I hear anything starting with “C” no longer happens. Going into my garden has made this act disappear. The reputation of this alphabetic third child (like myself), is not a cheerful one. Rethinking ways to embrace “C” was easy when in my garden. There is a sense of contentment with not always working in my garden. Enjoying the imperfect garden is perfect right now. This unexpected opportunity of time to simply be in the garden. The chance to consider the needs of my garden in a timely manner. Sometimes I find myself calculating how much a fence will cost? The joy of seeing Precious run aimlessly in her backyard is wishful thinking. In my mind, I am creating more garden rooms. Giving “C” some credit is actually lifting my spirits. The possibilities of adding more plants with “C” to my garden cheers me up!

Contemplating cool coleus…an option for the shady border.

How are you doing as we cautiously contemplate the future? Do you spend time contemplating upsizing or downsizing your garden as we pause? Are you or have you created beautiful vignettes in your garden? Can you find plants starting with “C” in your garden?

Consciously planting more of the letter “C” in my garden.

Teri, Cottage In The Court

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Paris Tours – A Black Paris Perspective

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Paris Tours should always include a walk by of the Eiffel Tower. …it’s a part of Paris you cannot ignore.

I am not sure why this is showing up on my website today. Perhaps because in a different year,  I would be practicing my poor efforts at saying most things in French. There would be a suitcase, portable duffle, and a backpack, waiting for the yearly trek.  The array of cute flat shoes (no tennis shoes) to choose from on the guest bedroom floor. A small jar of moisturizer, small toothpaste, and contact lenses were the standard toiletries waiting to be packed. Everything else I needed, I would purchase in Paris.

Over the weekend, while purging papers, I happened upon some postcards…from Paris of course. A tear dropped and I refused to wipe i t away. One by one tears fell as I flipped through my short stack of memories. The Eiffel Tower in blue, the steps by Sacre Coeur in the snow, a perfect table setting with a view, fountains at the Tuileries, and Paris at night. 

These were not tears of sadness, but quite the opposite. I cherish the memories  of the Paris excursions. The friends I have made, my fantasy conversations with Claude (you know Monet), and wandering just for the adventure of it. I recollect my glee as I have flashbacks of the gardens I planned to see, as well as those I happened upon. My journey, my version of Paris and the anticipation of my August #refreshresetrestore, has been delayed this year. Not cancelled, simply postponed. 

One thing I have promised myself during this time of unintentional  pausing, I will always be good to myself. I will not deny myself of anything that will create a positive memory. There will be times when I have dessert for dinner and dinner for breakfast. Staying hydrated will be my mantra…from water to wine. As my big brother Jimmy  often reminds me, we are all adults now, just be YOU. So I reminisce about the things that bring  me joy. 

As we continue on this never ending road of unintentional pausing and encounter the intersection of what’s next, look back. Find the pictures, wear the trinkets, check your passport, for this too shall pass. BY 2022…we might be able to travel again. 

In the meantime…here is a memory that wants to be re-visited today…so it just keeps showing up.

During the Christmas Holiday of 2016, I wanted to take advantage of the  different tours offered in Paris. It was the perfect opportunity to partake in the Black Paris Tours.

Arranging the Black Paris Tour was quite easy. There are two options – a  half day tour and a full day tour. If  you want the adventure of a daylong immersion in the Black Paris perspective choose the full day, which includes dinner in Little Africa. I had no  idea of what to expect…however I was onboard for the journey.

The day started out at a wonderful restaurant with up close and personal views of the Arc de Triomphe. Breathtaking does not describe  how awesome this was and we were just getting started. Warm croissants, coffee, tea, and conversations with the other tour members was the icebreaker. Our guide informed us on how the tour would take us from foot to bus to Metro. We were all ears and ready to bundle up and get started with our day.

Starting our Black Paris Tour with Miguel , Our Guide on the Black Paris Tour.

Miguel Overton Guerra, Black Paris Tours, shared little known facts about the African American’s presence in the military history of France. The story of the Harlem Hell Fighters was amazing!We also discovered how this wonderful obelisk traveled across the waters as a gift to France.It was challenging seizing the opportunity of seeing this up close. We had to stick very close together as we navigated the cars and buses. Getting through traffic requires one to be very alert, attentive and aware!

Our guide Miguel escorted us to the Church which hosted the funeral of Josephine Baker. Madeleine Church was undergoing exterior renovations at the time of our visit. Knowing that I stood on the steps where many paid their respects to this woman of color who persisted, despite the odds, was amazing! While exterior work was being performed, the interior views were not the best. What I did capture was simply amazing. 

Interior of Madeleine Church were the ceremony of life was held for Josephine Baker.

One thing I must mention, the Madeleine Church has always welcomed a diverse congregation and still does today. Merci to the ministry of this beautiful Church.

Miguel ushered the group onto a bus and we traveled to visit with the monuments honoring Alexandre Dumas.  All along the way our guide pointed out other points of interest to explore on our own. Arriving in the neighborhood where the Dumas family called home was quite a treat.  Knowing that this Haitian man has left memorable literature of note to readers all around the globe is just amazing.

Miguel shared the story of the area where The Dumas family lived.

The statue was amazing.

The statue of Alexandre Dumas…

Then …we looked closer at the monument of this well-known author of the times…as well as today…Upon closer inspection one can see one of the Three Musketeers.  Imagining that a man of Color wrote one of the well-known classics is simply amazing.

Art in the park near the statue of Alexandre Dumas that speaks to the breaking of the chains of slavery ..simply awesome!

One of the last stops before dining was at Parc Monceau.

Aren’t these gilded gates magnificent!! Oh the gilded gates that welcomed many African-Americans and even housed an author of note in the maids chambers.

Yes it was cold, but a beautiful time had by all. Nothing like feeding the mind as well as the soul when traveling….

We left Parc Monceau after hearing many stories of how this was a well visited place for African-Americans in the Arts. We headed further into an area kniwn as Little Africa.  Admiring the beauty of this Parc in the midst of winter, I can see how it’s beauty captured the hearts of its visitors. In Little Africa, we dined in community with others from Senegal and I must say the food was divine.  The defining touch was the hibiscus tea…..delightful! Out of the respect for the restaurateur, we did not take photo’s. If you want a fantastic meal in an authentic restaurant, go to Little Africa or better yet, take the full day tour with Black Paris Tours.

Considering traveling to Paris, partake in the Black Paris Tours.  I guarantee that you will find out some interesting things you might not know about. Henry O. Tanner knew about the awakening that Paris provides and has provided throughout history to people of Color.

Thank you Ricki Stevenson for providing such great information on African-American milestones in Parisian history.

Memories as I am missing prepping for my August #reset…

Teri, Cottage In The Court

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I wonder what Paris is like today…and if it misses me, as much as I miss her…
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All Up In My Feelings – The Meditative Gardener

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All books on mediation or being mindful are simply not the same. Cheryl Wilfong has made this very clear by writing the book, The Meditative Gardener.

Of all the books on my shelf that I reached back to read, this book fit the moment. The Meditative Gardener – Cultivating Mindfulness of Body, Feelings and Mind is worth the re-read. Most books I review become part of my reference library or I find a fellow gardener to share it with. This is not one of those books to give away.

From time to time, there are words that suggest actions. These words tend to have me “all up in my feelings”. Cheryl has words that echo in my mind and cause me to reflect inwardly. Particularly because this year. I will not have the opportunity to #resetrenewrestore in my usual manner. My annual pleasure of choosing a faraway place, commit to seeing all of the gardens, and acting like a local has been revised. Cheryl Wilfong has helped me revise my mindset by immersing myself all in this book.

During this time of unintentional pausing, making tie to meditate allows me to feel ALL of my senses. It is mind blowing! Cheryl Wilfong is not just a Psychologist, but a Meditation Practitioner, and a Master Gardener, as well. Gardening is a great way to reduce and release stress. Meditating only enhances feelings of peace, as we consider how we garden.

Cheryl begins by using the Four Foundations of Mindfulness as the hardscaping for this book. The act of connecting us with our inner feelings as gardeners is important. Simple instructions provided by Cheryl asks the reader to choose one of the contemplations provided in the text. Readers can choose one daily, weekly or monthly. Choosing a contemplation enables the reader to practice mindfulness in the garden.

THE TOOKIT

There are two mental tools that Cheryl advises us to carry into the garden. Mindfulness of the body is number one. This tool allows us to touch on all of our senses as we garden.

Goodwill towards the garden, as well as the gardener, is the second tool. In short , this translates into gardening for joy. Cheryl reminds us to garden simply for the joy, not perfection or overabundance. Simply garden for the joy of being in the garden.

Whispering phrases of love and acceptance fertilizes our existence. Phrases like “May I feel safe”, May I feel happy” or “May I abide in well being ” all affect how we garden. By repeating phrases such as these, we harness the energy found in our minds. One of my favorite phrases is “May I feel safe”. I find myself repeating this important phrase daily.

THE ART OF MEDITATION

Cheryl suggests many options for meditating. As I read this book, an awareness came over me causing me to think of how I meditate. The innocent ways I engage with nature are a form of meditation. As a child growing up, I spent summers in the garden just laying amidst the flowers. I would stare up at the clouds and look through some of the petals on the blooms. Allowing my mind to wander, my extremities to feel the warmth of the sun, and my nose to capture all the scents wafting in through the air. I did not know at the time, I was practicing a meditative mindset in the garden.

Meditation in the garden should be an easy practice. I often wonder if my parents knew this as they taught us how to garden? From selection, sowing, watering to nurturing a simple seed. We were encouraged to be optimistic, to care and to give. The garden is the natural place to learn, reflect and of course…meditate. There are many different ways to meditate in the garden.

It is hard for me to actually say what the best part of the book is after reading it. The entire book was informative. All of the meditations can be applied to our daily life. One chapter that I really spent time on was THE ROOTS OF STRESS: Greed, Aversion, and Delusion. I found this chapter to be enlightening, informative and insightful on many different levels.

There are many topics covered in the MIND -Mind and Body Contemplation segment of this book. Cheryl followed up with a chapter called CONTEMPLATIONS. This chapter allowed the reader to investigate things like aging, change, even karma.

A particular exercise that melted my heart was called A Bouquet of Joy. The reader was advised to pick flowers from the garden. Utilizing all the senses, the reader should not look at what is missing in the bouquet. Explore how the bouquet makes you feel inside. It is suggested that the reader share the bouquet.

This book is a must read, in my opinion, for those who garden for the pleasure of gardening. The enlightenment of the mind and senses is a bonus.

Meditating in the garden should encompass all the senses…

Today I meditate, reflect and embrace the beauty that surrounds me…in my garden. Do you meditate in your garden?

Teri, Cottage In the Court

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Fling…Growing A Garden Community

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Fling is another word for a gathering of like-minded people. The Garden Bloggers Fling is always quite the gathering. At Hillwood Estate Museum and Gardens it took a bit but we did finally gather.

According to Lexico.com, the word fling, as a noun, means a short period of enjoyment or wild behavior. To this garden blogger, the Garden Blogger’s Fling is an annual short period of enjoyment. Held in the early part of the year, seeing diverse gardens is a welcome post-winter event. The opportunity to spend time with fellow garden bloggers is a garden camp with a twist. No wild behavior is involved. We do enjoy gathering in gardens anywhere.

Tammy was the DC Team Leader for the 2017 Garden Bloggers Fling

I heard about the Garden Bloggers Fling on my journey to become a full-fledged Garden Writer. I would visit the blog and dream of the places they wrote about. Actually, I thought that it would remain a dream of something that I wished I could be a part of. Tammy Winter-Schmidt spoke to me about being part of the DC Team and the rest is history. We chatted, met in person, texted, and had conference calls with the rest of the chosen DC Fling Crew. Attending the Fling was suddenly my reality.

The DC Garden Bloggers Flingers stuffed swag bags for our attendees.

We were nervous as it was not just a DC event. We encompassed DC, Maryland, and Virginia!! Tammy and Peggy Riccio took road trips to map out the route. The memories of this great adventure will always bring a smile to my face. Timing a Garden Bloggers Fling in the DMV, in late June…what could go wrong?

FLINGTASTIC PEOPLE

What better place than the Fling to meet a local Shero! Peggy Bier was a welcome site to see!

I never thought I could smile nonstop for 3.5 days. Hanging out with members of the Garden Bloggers Fling was amazing!

Dee Nash whose blog Red Dirt Ramblings I follow was a delight to meet in real life! In some ways I felt like a groupie!!

We were all over the DMV. There were many friendships cultivated along the way.

Hanging with Katie T. at the Smithsonian Gardens…who helped me commandeer one of the tour buses.

A memorable fling moment was a doozy! We realized the bus had no water. June…in DC…a bus of gardener aficionados (some seasoned) and no water. Acting fast, phone calls made, and we more or less hijacked a 50 passenger bus to correct this mishap. Serious #girlpower happened that day! My fellow Fling attendees never knew…whew!

We visited private gardens…

Jeff Minnick allowed us to experience his oasis…
Dee Nash and Ira Wallace watching out for each other in the DC heat on our National Mall.
We strolled quietly and absorbed the peaceful landscapes…taking notes along the way.

FLINGTASTIC PLACES

We visited public gardens. What is a Garden Bloggers Fling without mixing it all up?

We toured and prayed that the weather would hold up so we could enjoy this wonderful weekend. The Franciscan Monastery was a great place for some welcome shade…and OH THOSE GARDENS!
We even remembered to use our inside voices outside as we gasped at the beauty surrounding us.

Did I mention the private gardens? They were ALL quite Garden Bloggers Fling worthy and fabulous!

The Fling attendees paused to rest.
We captured photos that were quite breathtaking..
There were opportunities for surprise swag throughout the weekend.
Did you know Garden Bloggers Fling attendees can shop with intention, take a photo together, and STILL make it back to the bus on time! Thank You Merrifield Gardens for welcoming us!!
Even our Canadian attendees like Janet Davis had a blast. The Garden Bloggers Fling welcomes our friends from all over the world.
I still get excited as I reflect on that weekend. I was nervous waiting for Victoria Summerley to sign the books I won at the raffle! Touching the books help me remember how I made my mind up to plan a trip to England. (I did!)
I can only imagine this garden in its three years of maturity. If I ever see it again, I can say I saw it when it was young. It was quite inspirational!
The inspiration was endless…

FLINGTASTIC OPPORTUNITIES

There were even gardens where we simply paused and continued to soak up the beauty!
We were treated to terrific presentations from our sponsors like Mark Highland, Owner, Organic Mechanics. I helped Mark handout the samples of this wonderful product. You NEED to know about the benefits of Organic Mechanic for your garden!
We had the best time bonding and creating memories in gardens throughout the DMV. The Garden Bloggers Fling creates the opportunity to network and grow!

The Fling is open to garden bloggers who have had an active blog for 6 months. Attendees are writers, authors, speakers, garden bloggers, and more. Genuine seeds of kindness from this community of gardeners are planted at every Garden Bloggers Fling. It is hard to miss even one Fling!

This year, as our country is unintentionally pausing, the Fling was postponed. We look forward to June 2021. Look out Madison, Wisconsin…here we come!. I hear there is something magical in Wisconsin. A few things I anticipate are gardens, ice cream, cheese curds, and cultivating more friendships. Madison, Wisconsin has never crossed my mind as a garden destination. If it is like past Flings, my bags are packed! I am prepared.

I must say thank you to the Garden Bloggers Fling for welcoming me. Interested in the Garden Bloggers Fling? Click here to find out more. The sponsors truly deserve a huge hand. They share their products and more, to make this recurring event a huge success!!

Maybe it takes awhile for us to get in one picture…but there is always next year!

Sitting with wands of Lavender Phenomenal (Thank you Peacetree Farm, LLC) and smiling. I love finding the words to share about the Garden Bloggers Fling!

Teri, Cottage In The Court

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Someone Stole My Meadow

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Someone stole a vision of beauty in my City. We need anything that resembles beauty, as well as life, during this difficult time.

Someone stole my meadow. Every morning I walk in different parts of my City. Observing the various personalities of the yards at the break of dawn is refreshing. I can tell what type of gardener dwells in the all green no color property. The colorful garden with a touch of green says a somewhat creative spirit lives within. Every so often there might be a square shrub and sometimes an inverted triangle shrub as well. Gardening is personal, so I cannot judge. This morning my walk left me totally aghast…I realized something strange.

Someone had stolen my meadow.

I picked from this very spot last week. Just a stem or two for a bouquet, I thought would not be missed. A bouquet of “Blooms I See Daily”, to keep the memory of the morning alive throughout the week. Someone stole this vision of beauty.

When walking last week, I immersed my thoughts in the growing meadow along Kipling Parkway. Pleasant thoughts of how any gardener nearby would appreciate the pollinators this meadow would attract. The vegetables would produce more vegetables and the flowers would bloom prolifically. Most importantly, the community would see more pollinators.

Someone stole the meadow…

To some, it might have looked like weeds in the slopes along the bank that runs through the City. I know there are Seniors and gardeners who might have been looking forward to the potential blooms. The Asclepias Incarnata was about to bloom. Commonly known as Swamp Milkweed, one might have considered this an area in disarray. Unknowing and perhaps assuming this slope needed mowing. Not understanding the intention of planting can be detrimental. Sometimes we need to look beyond the visible to see the beauty that surrounds us. This morning I realized the meadow was missing at first glance. Someone simply seized the opportunity to just “get the job done”. Most likely without any afterthought or shame.

Next Spring will not be the same, without the Redbuds in bloom…

I must sadly report that it is not just the meadow. Two gorgeous Cercis canadensis, commonly known as Redbuds, have been cut down. Post bloom and in a state of perfect form – gone. Aimlessly tossed aside in a heap, the vision was like a pile of unwanted debris for all to see. A few years ago, these trees were planted by the City Grounds Crew. It was the beginning of a Beautification effort for our City. Someone stole a beautiful memory of better days.

To make it worse…they just put the debris in the waterway…

A BEAUTIFUL LESSON GONE

Everyone is not like me. I get this. Nature, creating spaces that provide beauty, teaching people how to connect with beauty is what I do. Dog walkers, joggers, and seniors walking along, also paused to enjoy this view. I looked at the strip meadow as an opportunity for my neighbors to see the beauty in the midst of the madness.

This planting was not just tall grass. It was a haven for the butterfly’s bringing life and energy to this well-traveled space. What a teachable opportunity missed for parents homeschooling their children during this period of unintentional pausing. A walkable habitat in the center of the City would have been a delight for all to see. It was more like a pollinator highway in the middle of my community. Opportunities for naturalistic plantings like this are not common in the African American community. It felt good knowing that we were contributing to the pollinating community. Giving back never felt so good. Those who are connected to the earth will understand how disappointing this is. My morning walk along the “meadow gone” will just not be the same.

TO MOW OR NOT TO MOW

If this were a funeral program, it would say “Asclepias syriaca, mowed down before it’s time”…

In another area of the City, there is another meadow with similar topography. There are signs clearly stating instructions…

DO NOT MOW…

Protecting riparian buffers to keep our waterways clean is important. Part of the maintenance is mowing and even not mowing specific areas.

Clearly signage is needed as well as education on what the environment needs to stay alive.

Meadows are a beautiful thing. One could consider a meadow a mixed media style of planting. Mowing once or sometimes twice a year proves meadows can be cost-effective. The additional added value is the beauty in the diversity of plant material and more. In the book Mini Meadows, Mike Lizotte offers recommendations for all types of meadow plantings. From erosion control, hell strips, drought tolerance, and more. There are even plant suggestions beyond Echinacea – Coreopsis, Poppies, Bee Balm, just to name a few. Deer resistant? Yes, there is a meadow for that. Including plants like black-eyed Susans, Yarrow, Sage, or assorted native perennials. American Meadows offers custom blends for whatever is needed to bring back the beauty in yards and communities alike.

ROI = RETURN OF INVESTMENT

When we pay our taxes, we anticipate our governing entities to action our behalf. Hiring qualified people is part of that equation. The ROI of taking care of the community is missing. With the negative energy surrounding us, we really need to have visions of beauty. Training City, as well as County employees to consider the environment, ask questions, and create a conversation about best practices is essential.

Educating the staff is necessary to stay current in any industry. Attending classes would add value and a sense of ownership of the job as well. The education of sound practices in an environmental setting would enable the employees to perhaps make a career out of horticulture. The Mid-Atlantic Short Course is a terrific way to enhance the skillset of the Grounds Team. I have attended this and found it invaluable for my team. It offers Team Leader, as well as training for the crew. There is even an opportunity for certification to advance one’s career. Attending training such as this would give the residents a true ROI.

A bee, drunk with the bliss of being present and able to interact with nature…

Just having my say as I have had to make peace with the thought of someone stealing my meadow. Perhaps I should consider making seed balls…for my own meadow.

In memory of the meadow,

Teri, Cottage In The Court

Enjoying visions of a mini meadow…
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