Commitments are all the rage at this time of the year. We make all sorts of commitments such as working out more , eating healthier, dry January, less phone time and more. Usually these words or statements are made with a determined spirit that slowly dissipates by mid or late January. We realize that perhaps we overstated what our intention really was and that we can get creative with the concept.
Commitments matter IF you are intentional about the end result. Are you doing something for YOU or is it for those around you? If you change your mind mid-commitment, who will know?
I find that one commitment to myself and staying true to the commitment is worth it’s weight in gold. In 2025, I committed to being joyfully present for me more. This allowed me to savor every moment as if it were my last. I realize that if I did not share my achievements, no one would know. Speaking up for myself with a smile and presence was difficult at first. By the fall, it was easy and empowering as well.
Finding joy in my garden, while finding help was harder this year than ever before, despite the heat and drought-like conditions. I was able to take time to see what plants will survive without supplemental water and which ones can create drama without it. Joy was reconnecting with my garden and seeing all the beneficial insects and birds enjoying it even when I was not home. There was a bird who was intrigued with my surveillance camera and made an appearance daily for over a month. Random acts of nature like this warms my heart and provides joyful, memorable moments.
I purchased a flag earlier this year and never found time to hang it. As 2025 rapidly comes to a close, the time to hang this flag is more important than ever. It will not just be a reminder for me, but to all who see it. While each of us is on our own journey, we might need a reminder from time to time of how important kindness is. A kind word, a simple smile of acknowledgement can go a long way to an unsuspecting person. A saucer of water for a travel weary bird, a seedhead to munch on during the winter months as sustenance – just being kind matters.
As I embrace 2026, I am expanding on my joyful commitment and increasing it to include being more kind. Intentional kindness in life and in the garden will bring me joy from day to day. Sitting in the doorway at the Cottage figuring out creative ways to spread more kindness in this world…we really need it.
Teri, Cottage in the Court
Love the flag, Teri. You are a very special, kind person. The world needs more people like you. I heard someone on this topic suggesting that, instead of resolutions, it can make sense to commit to being the person you want to be. It seems you have already achieved the goal of your flag. Happy New Year to you and yours!